Thursday, April 30, 2015

A FUNNELING WE GO




I have a morning ritual when I reach my kitchen.  Each day I prepare for the process of making ice coffee.  I do this because... it is not only cost-effective, but better for you with a reduced 69% acidity, and the flavor is out of this world!  

After the grounds have saturated in water for 48 hours, I take a funnel and place it over an empty mason jar.  Then I place a cone shaped filter in the funnel.  Slowly, I pour the liquid grounds and watch the stream trickle below surface filling the jar with savory coffee.   



In my impatience, I sometimes pour too quickly and it burst the filter, causing the grounds to also fill the jar.   Therefore, causing me to start the whole process over again.



I don't like to repeat steps.  I rather do things right the first time.  As I think of that filter bursting, I reflect on how we sometimes conduct our lives as such.  How many times have you found yourself cramming in change overnight?  

You vow that you’re going to do things differently.  "This time is going to be different".  Then the bubble is burst with frustration, and anticipation of the Almighty ready to lower the boom on your bummed efforts.  Did you catch that?  YOUR EFFORTS! 



When did we ever start to believe that we were so self-sufficient we could handle everything?  Some believe they could conquer the world in one word, while changing the very core of themselves for the good of all mankind.  

Often believers become discouraged when failure seems to frantically funnel into the purifying places of their souls.  The process of purifying is going to take more than 48 hours.  It’s a lifetime event.  Change isn't something that happens overnight.  



Failure will be met with every about-face, unless we are being purified through the funneling of the Holy Spirit, God's word, and willingness to listen and learn of Christ's ways.  It is a necessary process.  Much like the coffee grounds that enter through the burst filter, ruining the savor of this black gold.  



If we try to filter out the impurities within ourselves too fast, and on our own, we will end up with grounds of disappointment, discouragement, and more delays, and having to start the process all over.






In this life, we will have delays!  There is no getting around it.



Yet, focus on the process, not the delay.  Who wants a cup of bitter tasting coffee?  Or to react bitterly to life? 



Delays are destinations that have been designed to purify the process of faith.  How quickly are you pouring into your funnel?  Is the filter going to hold?  You might need to allow the process to take however long it needs to percolate into the person God is calling you to be.  

Funneling faith is the process of filtering out self reliance, and personal opinions opposed to God's word.  God really knows what He is doing...and desires for us to depend on His design while directing our efforts.  

Numbers 23:19  God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind. Has he said, and will he not do it? Or has he spoken, and will he not fulfill it?
 The funneling process doesn't have to be a frustrating one.  If you focus on the journey more then the delay, you will find  your faith funneled with fervency.




Change will come before you know it...as metamorphoses evolves you into reflecting Him (Jesus Christ)...you will leave imprints on the world around you which will domino a chain reaction for a Christ centered change.




"You change your life by changing your heart." -Max Lucado



Brenda A. Graff / Founder
FOOD FOR SOUL MAGAZINE
“Often times God demonstrates His faithfulness in adversity by providing for us what we need to survive. He does not change our painful circumstances. He sustains us through them.”  ~ Charles Stanley



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Monday, April 20, 2015

A RADICAL SABBATICAL


The other day, I  noticed Tiger, the Alpha male in our family of pets was lounging in an office chair. Sprawled out and looking cozy. He hadn't a care in the world. I thought to myself, "Oh to be a cat". Tiger doesn't worry about whether the stock market is going to drop, or if the rent is going up. He could care less if the Kardashians are splitting up, or if Syria is splitting hairs. 
Tiger is perfectly content with laying in that chair and resting. Oh to rest. What would it mean to actually take some time to relax, and to stop and smell the roses? Yet, we often find ourselves so busy with our to-do's...we don't. 
Resting has many meanings. Rest is something I am having to learn. I think since I was a child, I've been in "production mode" with the exception of a few unconscious teen years. If I am not moving, then I'm wasting time, I often thought. Always thinking there isn't enough time left, got to get 'er done now mentality, "why put off tomorrow what you can do today". 
I think this is where the A-type personality comes into play. The perfectionism that drives people insane! I can blame it on the month I was born in, my parents, school teachers, or perhaps even Sunday school...yet, the truth is...I have no one to blame but myself. 
You may ask yourself, how did I get here?  When did I stop enjoying life? Who busted the bubble of blatant laughter? Who stole my happy? At what age were we told to be all grown up and take every moment so serious we choke the life out of living? Seriously, how do we get to that place....the place of rest? What does rest mean? Is it to nap, vacation, meditation, or just to have unadulterated fun?


Out of curiosity, I began digging into the meaning just a little further.

The Webster's dictionary defines it as:noun \ˈrest\ REST : repose, sleep; specifically : a bodily state characterized by minimal functional and metabolic activities, freedom from activity or labor, a state of motionlessness or inactivity, the repose of death.

verb: to stop doing work or an activity : to spend time relaxing, sleeping, or doing nothing after you have been active or doing work : to give rest to (someone) : to stop using (something) so that it can become strong again
Yes, part of it speaks of actual sleep, but notice something here. I loved the meaning in the verb sense where it states:  to stop using (something) so that it can become strong again

Recently, I had developed a condition with my vocal chords, unlike I had ever experienced. I had been practicing much for our upcoming worship service. In practicing, and then singing for service that following Sunday, I managed to strip my vocals, causing much pain, and swelling. It was so bad I had to go to ER. I am not a "run-to-a-doctor-every-time-I-get-an-ache" type of patient. I like to handle things as best naturally and when all else fails run like Forest Gump for care. 

Unfortunately, I couldn't treat this one. I was having difficulty swallowing, couldn't talk, and certainly was not going to be able to sing again, if not taken care of. So I bit the bullet and went in to be put on steroids, and antibiotics as a secondary issue set in when I had caused the vocals to bleed. The doctor said to let my voice rest!  It needed to recover to produce the ability to sing and talk again. No yelling deafening demands at the kids, Hubby, or pets....and certainly NO SINGING for a few days. 
I was mortified because I had an upcoming Women's Bible study to lead and only a few days to get the voice back. Fortunately, the meds and rest worked.  And I am able to sing again.

In Leviticus 25, it speaks of the Sabbath year, and following with the year of Jubilee. During this time God had instructed Moses to speak to the Israelites regarding rest. He commanded them to take a sabbatical.  There was a period of time in which they were commanded to allow the land to rest as well. He assured them, that during this resting period the land would still provide plenty of nourishment for consumption.

4 But in the seventh year the land is to have a year of sabbath rest, a sabbath to the Lord. Do not sow your fields or prune your vineyards. 5 Do not reap what grows of itself or harvest the grapes of your untended vines. The land is to have a year of rest.

It had to rest so it could produce more! 

So often, people get too busy trying to climb the ladder, produce children of productivity, run a ministry marathon, or push the plate to plenty...they miss the joy in the journey. We catch ourselves running from one sports activity to another, or racing against the traffic and clock to meet the demands of a job, family, or a community of needs that leaves us breathless. Zombied out on lack of sleep, caffeine, and dangling nerves, leads to NO JOY, and NO REST!  And it makes us cranky Christians! 
Have you ever been around one?  They walk around without any expression on their face, or looking like some kind of an ogre. 
Or they are too busy being busy for God, and your just in the way....as they rush past you to get to their mission.  Boy, that sure makes me want to know more about their loving God.  Not good. (P.s. apologies to my Pastor's wife as I have side-swiped her at least 3 x's), ugh God forgive me.

There is so much more to the meaning of rest. Sometimes resting means to just stand still, be silent, wait (as on the Lord), stop striving, lay it down, STAND FIRM, to RELEASE! Let it go...as the theme from "Frozen" proclaims. 
Lay down your anger..."GIVE IT A REST", cut-off jealousy, resentment, bitterness, and unforgiveness as it only causes "DIS-EASE"...literally!

Just read below:

Negative Health Effects of UnforgivenessWhen unforgiveness persists, the prolonged anger involved heightens a person’s medical risk. In fact, prolonged anger can make people 500% more likely to die before the age of 50.  Anger triggers the body’s "fight-or-flight" response, creating hyper-arousal in the body in order to cope with a perceived crisis. The resulting stress on the body mimics amphetamine intake, raising blood pressure, speeding heart rate, and depressing the body’s immune response in order to focus on the threat of the moment. Over time, these responses cause negative health effects in the body, as these natural responses exist for too long when unforgiveness lingers. As a result, those harboring grudges experience increased risks of heart disease, cancer, and stroke.  The negative health effects of unforgiveness can also have negative effects on the brain. Studies have shown that even low-level resentment and anger tend to lower cognitive function and problem-solving capacity. Additionally, unforgiveness can lead to anxiety disorders, depression, and shame. 
http://soberplace.com/negative-health-effects-of-unforgiveness/


So as you see, rest isn't just about taking a physical sabbitcal. It is a spiritual one as well.

Proverb 18:14
"The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?"
We must learn to forgive, set aside, put down, and relieve our hearts of harboring resentments.  Give IT a rest!

Mark 11:25-26
And when ye are praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.

For a moment, just close your eyes, plug into some ocean wave sounds. This is a site I use, and let the stress of the roll off my shoulders.
Don't be a Martha (Luke 10:38-42).
God is calling us to sit in His presence and learn of His ways and rest on Him. He wants us to be confident in His ability to handle whatever may come. When we don't rest, we are basically saying to God, "Sorry, guy...your just taking too long, and quite frankly, I don't believe you can handle the job"... Oh dear God, forgive us! What a total slap in the face of the Almighty! The one who created, pre-orchestrated, and sacrificed SOOOO MUCH for us! He wants us to have the peace that passes all understanding, and the only possible way to do that is to, abide, trust, depend on, rely, and REST IN HIM!  

It means choosing a radical Sabbatical!  Be purposeful in your time, but take the time to REST, RELAX, and be RESTORED!  If need be, watch video at end and let the kid in you sing your way into rest. 


-Brenda A. Graff
Founder 
 
Here are a few Hebrew meanings of REST:


After searching further the meaning of rest in Hebrew I found the following:'abah aw-baw': be willing.dmiy dem-ee' or domiy {dom-ee'}:cutting off, silence.damam daw-man': quiet self, be silent, be (stand) still, tarry, wait.hanachah han-aw-khaw': release.chadal khaw-dal': let alone, be unoccupied.
chanah khaw-naw': to pitch a tent; to encamp.marge`ah mar-gay-aw': refreshing.nuwach noo'-akh: set downcamak saw-mak':stand fast, stay (self), sustain.sha'an shaw-an': be at ease, be quiet.shabath shaw-bath': desist from exertionshalowm shaw-lome' or shalom {shaw-lome'}: well, happy, friendly; health, prosperity, peace




      


 




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Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Resurrection on the Road

-Brenda Graff

 

The day before Easter, we had been scheduled for a road trip to College Station, Texas to celebrate my father-n-laws eighty-fourth birthday.  We live quite far, but the scenery on the way up there can be breath-taking when the bluebonnets are in full bloom.  In anticipating to see a display of splendor, I made sure my camera was ready to grab some pics.  Not only were there some bluebonnets, but another favorite of mine are the side-roads covered with the Castilleja flowers, also known as Indian paintbrush or prairie-fire.




The flowers of Indian paintbrush are edible, and were consumed in moderation by various Native American tribes as a condiment with other fresh greens.  The Ojibwa, or Chippewa, a large group of Native Americans used a hair wash made from Indian paintbrush to make their hair glossy and full bodied, and as a treatment for rheumatism. Nevada Indian tribes used the plant to enhance the immune system.

But before you go out and pick a hand full of these to consume, read up on them.  They can be very toxic if eaten in large quantities or consuming the root.  

Anyhow, back to the road trip.  As I was enjoying the breeze through the window, and ironically listening to one of my favorite Christian artist, "Third Day", and viewing patches of these beautiful displays here and there, I was overcome at the timing that these flowers begin to bloom.  Remembering that Sunday was the very next morning where families would gather in great numbers all over the world to celebrate our risen Savior, Easter.  It brought what I call an “ah-ha” moment.  

I thought of the magnitude of how God, our Creator in heaven and earth had planted flowers all over creation.  He chose the colors, shape, size, and timing for blooming.  


I am always amazed as I experience the display of artistry with each passing byway. 



Just months before on a Thanksgiving trip through the area it was dry, and barren, with the whisper of bitter, cold, and lonely winds blowing through the hills.  Here it is spring, the rising up of the dead, the buried, and sleeping...singing in full bloom the praises of our Eternal King.  The trees in the fields clap their hands to him, birds in the sky sing their praise to Him, the flowers in the fields bloom with passion towards their Creator for all the world to witness as they celebrate the living, One and Only Begotten Son of God, the King of Kings, Lord of Lords, and our Savior.  That on that third day HE arose!

It was no accident the petals were displayed in spender the weekend of the crucifixion and the rising of the SON! 


God wasn’t placing flowers on the graveside of this sinful earth in the mourning of His sacrifice, He was planting LIFE through HIS sacrifice as a sign to NEVER be forgotten, while giving ours back.  LIFE ETERNAL.

Isaiah 55:12-13 (NIV)You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.  13 Instead of the thornbush will grow the juniper, and instead of briers the myrtle will grow. This will be for the Lord’s renown, for an everlasting sign, that will endure forever.”