Thursday, December 4, 2014


Seeds of Survival


Seasons come and go, and depending on your climate, you might experience a longer one than usual.  The same goes for our spiritual seasons.  You might be experiencing times where you live on a mountain top, and then suddenly here comes a strong wind of change to knock you to the valley.  

Life has many seasons.  Just as the leaves change colors in fall, flowers fade, and branches become bare, some situations and relationships diminish.  

Yet, what happens when winter begins to withdraw its bitter sting?  Seedlings begin to emerge, sprouting hope, life, and beauty as spring awakes with a breath of sweet change.  We once again experience a season of belief, a reason to keep hoping.

“In seed time learn, in harvest teach, in winter enjoy.” 

-William Blake

We have to prepare for those seasons when life thunders in unexpected circumstances.  

To do so would be to put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), as our fight is not against flesh and blood, but a spiritual warfare.  We cannot always predict the weather, especially if you live in Texas!  It's freezing one day, and a sauna the next.  However, in preparation for these seasons of change by planting the seed of God's word in you, harvesting what's learned, putting to action knowledge, you can survive the seasons.    -Brenda Graff / The Anchor News

May God bless you during yours.



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Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Fixings on the Plate


This morning I had planned on correcting some typos I noticed after posting a blog yesterday.  The more I read, the more I found.  I started viewing previous blogs to find…YES…more typos.  I don’t like TYPOS at least not on anything I write or publish.  

After a while of making corrections, I became frustrated looking at the time.  I had much scheduled, and needed to get going on some other things.  There were too many blogs to re-read and check for errors at that time. I didn't want to lose focus on some other more urgent matters of the day. 

It was at that moment I thought, “How many times we waste time...focusing on fixing something broken from the past?”  We grab our large bottle of Wite-Out® and commence to brushing over the ink stained mess.  Yet, it keeps resurfacing, bleeding through the Wite-Out®.  No matter how many coats you brush on.  

We try to fix our mess.  Reconstruct our brokenness with relationships, alcohol, drugs, excessive shopping, over-eating, or I think sometimes worse of all (over-obsessing) on attaining PERFECTION!  A "Perfectionist", I know...I've been called that dirty word many times.  My kids sometimes make snide remarks of how "We can't be perfect like you M-O-M!" Usually, this follows after I have asked them to possibly fold up a laundered towel instead of tossing it in a wad on the utility shelf..ugh  That isn't perfectionism, I like things tidy. I have to remind myself I CAN'T, I WON'T, OR EVER BE "PERFECT"!

The Lord says, that He blots out our sin and doesn’t give it another thought!

Isaiah 43:25 (NCV)
“I, I am the One who erases all your sins, for my sake; I will not remember your sins."

(He was referring to saving His people despite themselves)

Colossians 2:14 (KJ21)
Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us. He took it out of the way, nailing it to His cross;

So why do we spend hours focused on a past that cannot be undone?  If God can forgive us, then why can’t we forgive ourselves?  

If we spend the rest of our days walking around with self-doubt and ridicule over mistakes, we would never accomplish anything! 

In Thomas Edison’s early years, teachers told him he was "too stupid to learn anything." He was fired from his first two jobs for not being productive enough. As an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. Of course, all those unsuccessful attempts finally resulted in what we have now… LIGHT!  Light in our homes, light in our cars, light in our domes, and light in the dark.  Thank God for the bulb!

What would have happened if Thomas had decided to quit trying after the 1,000th failure?

What if he had listened to the negative verbiage?  He would not have pressed through. 

We would still be sitting in the dark watching candle-wax dripping into the surface of our tables.

God expects us to keep moving forward.  We are not to allow our mistakes, missed marks (sin) to prevent us from following through with the purpose He has put in us.

Self-inflicted unforgiveness fixes NOTHING!  In doing so, we are playing God.  We decide our worth disbelieving God’s love, mercy, and grace.  We decide that Christ sacrifice for our sins wasn't good enough.  In other words, we don’t believe that Jesus died on the cross for OUR sins.  Oh, we may believe He did for others, but not for ourselves.  

He says, we must keep looking forward, stepping continually straight into the presence of His plan despite ourselves. 

Luke 9:62 (KJ21)
And Jesus said unto him, “No man, having put his hand to the plow and looking back, is fit for the Kingdom of God.”

Don't lose sight of what's important.  Keep walking forward while working on self.  Don't get stuck at the road blocks of a blemished past.  Let it go, full throttle forward, put the peddle to the metal and drive into your divine destination. 

Leave the fixing in the potter's hands.  He really does know what He is doing.  


P.s. If you find a few typos, remember I'm NOT Perfect! However, I am working on it.   




Tuesday, December 2, 2014


You've Been Served


One afternoon while sifting through my son’s homeschooling assignments, I came across several incomplete answers.  I knew he was pre-occupied with finishing quickly so he could have more time on games. However, looking closer, noticed there were difficult problems to solve.  I may have given him work too advanced.  I noticed instead of him asking me how to solve the problem, he drew superhero figures on the page.  I decided to wad it up and toss it. This may not be good teaching tactics however, felt it best.  I didn't want to see him become frustrated trying to complete a task that he wasn't prepared for.  

We would have to start from scratch.  We would need to spend much time together going over the assignment.  I knew it would be impossible for him to complete it without me.

Thinking back, I remember starting out young working in an office environment.  I had barely graduated, and was in my first real administrative job.  I had no clue of how to use a computer, Dictaphone, or a switchboard.  I was terrified!  Barely 17 and trying to impress well-experienced adults was too much for an inexperienced me.  

Forget the butterflies in stomach with nerves, it was more like mammoth moths trying to scratch their way out.   I would show up to work nauseated every morning!  

There was an intimidating individual I worked with.  She didn't talk to you, she shouted.  She had a sour disposition all the time.  I wasn't sure if she just hated her job, or maybe her life.  You couldn't make her smile if you handed her love on a platter wrapped in million dollar bills.

If I heard her breathe in my direction I knew I had to prepare for the dragon blast of fire coming my way.  It seemed I couldn't do anything right.  I knew my days were numbered.  

Sure enough, after three grueling weeks of “Dragon Lady”, I was handed my pink slip.  I grabbed my sorry looking plant singed from Dragon Lady’s blast...off my very first desk, and quietly whimpered my way to the car.  The drive home was long and tearful as I listened to, Alone Again by Gilbert O'Sullivan.  I questioned, “What did I do wrong?”  How was I going to explain to my parents, I failed?  I couldn't fail.  I was an honor student graduating Salutatorian.  I was voted most likely to succeed.  Devastated, I pulled into the drive and sat in the vehicle till I could get it together.  When I told my folks, they didn't beat me over the head with defeat.  Instead encouraged me to find another job.  

I realized many years after the fact, I was no more prepared for that type of work, then flying to the moon.  The skills, knowledge, and understanding of working in that mature environment were not what I had been trained in.   

Yet, down the road I attained, and mastered those skills through various work related jobs.  What seemed impossible became second nature to me through the years.  I had to be trainable.  Some folks are not trainable.  They believe they've learned enough, and refuse change.  I firmly stand on the fact that no matter how old you are, there is always something to learn.  I am a devout life learner.   

When God gives us an assignment, I believe that He has equipped us to handle it.  He has inbred the abilities to complete the job.  Yet, He also knows that we must stay close to him, to watch, listen, and learn to navigate through to completion.  

Many times we go off on our own thinking we can complete a mission by ourselves, and forget that we need God to follow through.  If we don’t allow God to direct our steps, we end up tripping over our egos, and falling flat on our face.   We need God to complete our assignments, much like my son needs me.  There is no one without the other in order to succeed in the assignment.  When we've been served walking papers, we need to follow God’s leading, not our own.

TIPS TO GETTING AN "A" ON YOUR ASSIGNMENT:

1. Your assignment will always require God’s involvement: if you can do it without God then you are not doing his will. (Exodus Chapters 6-40)

2. You must believe it is possible. (See Jeremiah)

3. Heaven knows the value of your assignment and celebrates your obedience every time you say ‘not my will but yours Lord.’

4. You must surrender your assignment to God: get out of the way and not talk yourself out of your assignment. (See Jonah)

5. Your assignment is a process: there are steps that have to be taken to be effective. Do not be discouraged if the process is slow. (See David in books of Samuel, Chronicles, and Psalms)

6. God will be the source and sponsor of your assignment: as long as your assignment is God-centered, He will bless people in advance so they will have the right (words, prayers, experience, network or 
money) to sow into your assignment. (see Joseph Genesis 37-50)

7. Your assignment will interfere with your previous commitment: You might be committed to a person or on the cusp of a big promotion and God will give you an assignment that is contrary to your personal plans. (See Mary mother of Jesus, Matthew-Revelation)

8. To successfully execute God’s assignment you cannot be an island. You also cannot be in toxic environments, the kingdom is all about relationships.  You will need the right people in your life to encourage you to press on when in low places. (See Mary mother of Jesus and Elizabeth, Luke 1:39-56)

10. Move to the right environment to cultivate the assignment: you have to make a mental move to things that are healthy and sometimes physically move if need be. (See Joseph, earthly father of Jesus, Matthew 2)

11. You must act immediately: once you accept the assignment in your spirit, start immediately in God’s direction so Satan doesn't have room to distract or distort what God has put in you. (See Elisha when Elijah put his mantel on him in the field, I Kings 19:19-21)

12. Stay in the right environment until you birth the assignment: there are places, people and thoughts that are assignment killers. Your assignment is your baby and Satan will do all he can to abort it before it can make an impact. (See Peter the apostle, Matthew 16 & 18, Acts 12: 1-11, I & 11 Peter)

13. Any relocation or change you make has to be related to your assignment: keep in mind ‘is this change going to grow my assignment or hurt it?’

14. Many will not recognize your dream: it is a protective measure so you are rejected by the system which will lead you down uncharted paths, and add to your testimony when the world finally catches up with your vision. (See the birth of Jesus, Luke 1:1-20))

15. Only the discerning will recognize your calling: Only people God wants to recognize the great things he hid in you, will see what your assignment is at its infancy, others, even people of God, will not see it until God reveals it to the world. (See the wise men and shepherds who came at Jesus birth, Matthew 2:1-2)

16. Know that not everyone with you is really for you: your assignment has to be protected from seemingly nice people who may poison it, especially in its infancy. (see King Harold at the birth of Jesus, Matthew 2:16)

17. Your star will be seen by others far away: God will send strangers to witness to you about your assignment, those closest to you might not see your assignment because they are too busy seeing ‘You’ but that’s fine, God will send His people to witness and encourage you to do the work. You need to internalize key affirmations to protect your assignment from spiritual warfare when it comes. (1 Corinthians 4:17)

18. You are favored even when you don’t feel like it: Your assignment will take you through low valleys but God is with you in those low places. (II Samuel 9-20, Psalms 23 & 77)

19. Your assignment will come from what is already within you, no matter how insignificant it seems to worldly eyes; it will never be imparted on you from somebody else. The treasures God wants to distribute was already buried within you before birth, nobody on earth can give you a talent to multiply. (See Samuel)

20. Your assignment will always be in a new sphere: Your assignment will be brand new to you, yes your life experiences will help you but the actual mission will not be something you have done before. (See Joshua)

21. You must know your assignment will add value to people: even if one person. Your assignment is not about you.  Anything you gain while working in Gods field is a byproduct of the assignment but the main focus is on people. Divine assignments rarely have anything to do with the worker; he/she is just a conduit of God’s will. (See the book of Isaiah and read on Paul the apostle, Acts 9:20-22, Galatians 1:16, 1 Corinthians 15:8,)

22. Your assignment will impact your generation. It may start small but if God is in it, your assignment will still resound to future generations. (See Daniel) 


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Friday, November 28, 2014

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Wednesday, November 26, 2014


JOHN 1:5

"We must pray for our country, pray for peace, pray for the hurting, and violence to cease" 

Friday, November 21, 2014

The Four Laws Of God’s Blessing

The Four Laws Of God’s Blessing



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